or as soon as I start having sex, should I stop seeing the other women (then we're back to not being able to date multiple women).
This is the typical reaction when a friend suggests that maybe that guy whose been dangling you along for months is juggling a couple other women.
This seems to have been a sticking point for me when trying to date multiple women, because I think out of respect to the women, you should be honest about having sex with other women, and most women are not ok with that at all.
So, should I avoid having sex with them as long as I'm dating multiple women at the same time (seems unlikely)...
These red flags become landmines over time, and suddenly you’ve wasted a lot of love and affection on someone who isn’t deserving of you.
Dating is about getting to know different people until one special person emerges as the cream of the crop, and you both decide to take things to the next level.